People think life abroad is easy.
They see the travel, the pictures, the “soft life.”
But they don’t see this part.
The cold mornings.
The long hours.
The exhaustion.
Working through pain… just to send money back home.
I left everything behind to support my family.
I carried responsibilities that weren’t even mine alone.
And I didn’t complain.
Because I believed I was helping.
Because I believed them.
But what I found out later?
Changed everything.
All those sacrifices…
All that stress…
All that money I was sending?
It wasn’t what I thought

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Please watch Monica part 1 and 2 , hope you will learn ❤
Your brother is very stupid 😏😏😏
I always say poor people are poor for a reason. they don't care about you. theyve already made a foolish continue and they will make you a biggger fool. tell them you lost your job. tell them nothing is going on in your life. Takers don't have limits. Send them money and they will explain to you how foolish you are in future.
I'm lucky I have the most supportive family. They don't ask me for anything but I send when I can. God bless every supportive family
You can send them something small monthly
Monica is that you?
You didn't go too far …..girl choose yourself first
If not they'll drain everything you work for …for their benefits
Another day to remind everyone that put yourself first family will drain you and one day they will look you in the eye and tell you no one force you so my dear leave them concentrate on yourself am speaking through experience
Please I beg u cut them off they dont want the best for u please they are evils,please u have to protect urself please they can do u bad
U have moved on Thats good no one deserves what they did to u they took advantage of ur good heart their family but they don’t deserve u my dear u are not wrong by choosing urself
This my anger issues hmmm
In every situation put yourself first.people think when you are abroad you plug money from tree
U DID THE RIGHT THING.
Family and entitlements.
Please focus on yourself and don’t be like Monica
Go and watch Monica..
And just so u know they don’t care about you!
Thissssss hmmm
Eeh they never apologized and you still camm them family
Thos your siblings have feet and hands let them work and know how painful it is to have responsibilities
Pls and pls again cuttttt themmm offff and be prayerful cus i know this is not the end ❤
I think you're enjoying suffering, continue sending them money, so that you can continue suffering! I'm angry
Some family are very wicked papa
Sis you can send the money when you wish to but don't let anyone force you to do it and if they request for something collect receipts or video call first
Tell them you are also sick seriously sick so you don’t work now .Ask them to contribute some money and let’s see
Sister Monica….is that you?
Simply say u were monicaring.
Everyone will understand.
Love yourself,help if you can(when you are very comfortable)don’t let their sufferings drain you again,and even if they ask for help let them give sth that will show they are not lying
Protect yourself ooo they don’t care!!!!
So u had money to take a flight home don't u have a friend u trust that could do that investigations for u ?
Can't u jux change ur sim or block them not total neglect but give them some space
Real life Monica, mama Monica, Bobo and Chika. Madam live your life. They would figure it out
What they did was wrong yes, but I still feel like you shouldn’t stop sending them money completely. Your mum is old and she needs all the assistance she can get. So if you can just put her on a monthly stipend. You don’t have to be calling and Gisting with them. Two wrongs cannot make it right.
Please don't be too hard on yourself, enjoy your life and money but don't cut them off completely, help them if you can with something small from your heart.
Cut them off for a year, because with or without you they’ll survive, you can send them money when you want to
My dear concentrate on yourself and future your family will be fine ok
They will manage All the money you used to send them previously 😂
Don’t send ooo my sister don’t send it and you’re not wrong
Cut them off. Some families are your downfall. They can work for themselves. CHOOSE YOURSELF they’re ingrate
So nobody had the courtesy to say sorry?? Not even your mom??That's wickedness
Don't be fooled twice my sister, because they are not feeling remorse, they think what they did is normal.